Reasons why hookup might not be suitable for everyone

What is a hookup?

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A hookup is a type of casual sexual encounter that takes place between individuals who are not dating. It often occurs when the parties engage in a promiscuous relationship that involves no commitment. Mostly the participants are friends, colleagues, ex-lovers, acquaintances, or even strangers.

Various people have had different experiences with hookups. The type of actions involved. the circumstances in which these actions take place, and the manner in which the hookup end determine whether it is a great or a terrible hookup. These issues present a challenge when people try to comprehend and predict various emotional responses shown by different individuals.

Below are some of the reasons why hookups might not suitable for everyone

Male and female participants have different regrets after engaging in casual sexual encounters. Most women have a tendency to regret after having a hookup. The emotional response shown by a majority of the women after hookups includes embarrassment or guilt. On the other hand, men are more likely to regret the choice of their partner; they feel sad in cases the partner was sexually lenient or unattractive.

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Whether to have sex or not

Majority of the women regularly have less or no regrets if a hookup does not lead to sexual contact. According to research hookups that include oral sex are not linked with causing grief as compared to those that lead to sexual intercourse; this is because women underrate the health risks associated with oral sex. Also, oral sex is seen as a concession between peer pressure to have sexual intercourse and general community principals that oppose casual intercourse.

The choice of a partner is a complicated issue

Most people have a high possibility of regretting what happened after a hookup; this is more common especially if it involved having sex with a stranger or a partner they don’t find attractive after the hookup.

Hookups may result in an individual feeling confused

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Having mixed responses to a hookup is not unusual. A lot of people who have engaged in hookups felt misused and bewildered about their most recent hookup. Some people may feel troubles, bewildered, and drained after hookup experiences,. Though some way may feel adventurous, most people end up feeling disappointed.

The emotional state of a person can predict their reactions towards hookups

Individuals who have interactive anxiety such as fear of being dumped or being asked about their private life are quicker to react negatively towards hookups. People with loneliness issues or those who seek their partner’s approval have a tendency of reacting negatively as well. An individual’s emotional state and overall relationship security depict how they feel after a casual sexual encounter.

Most of the individuals who expect delightful hookup experiences have a tendency of drinking heavily before the hookup, regularly engage in sexual intercourse, and look forward to having a relationship after the hookup. Those who are practical are more contented with the single encounter which makes them excited; they, therefore, expect nothing from the hookup.

Before engaging in a hookup, it is essential to find out about the issues that lead to a positive or a negative response to the encounter.

See more: https://lovehackz.com/2018/07/18/things-women-should-know-before-hookup/

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